Pleasure should feel good — physically, emotionally, and mentally.
But not all pleasure products are created with the same care, transparency, or safety in mind.
Understanding what body-safe really means — and how to properly clean and care for your toys —
isn’t about being overly cautious.
It’s about protecting your body, honoring your comfort, and enjoying your pleasure with confidence.
This guide focuses on the materials commonly used in pleasure products, why those materials matter, and how to care for them safely.
What Does “Body-Safe” Actually Mean?
A body-safe toy is made from materials that are designed for repeated, intimate contact with the body. These materials are typically:
- Non-toxic
- Free from harmful additives like phthalates
- As non-porous as possible
- Stable and resistant to breaking down over time
Body-safe materials do not easily absorb bacteria, odors, or chemicals, and they are less likely
to cause irritation or infection when cared for properly.
If a product does not clearly state what it is made from, that lack of transparency is worth questioning.
Why Materials Matter
The material a toy is made from affects:
- how it feels
- how easy it is to clean
- how long it lasts
- how safely it can be used
Some materials are smooth, sealed, and easy to sanitize. Others are more porous and require extra care.
Knowing the difference allows you to make informed choices — not fearful ones.
Common Body-Safe Materials
Medical-Grade Silicone
Medical-grade silicone is one of the most widely trusted materials in pleasure products.
It is:
- Non-porous
- Flexible or firm depending on design
- Hypoallergenic
- Easy to clean
Because it does not absorb bacteria or odors, medical-grade silicone is considered one of the safest materials for internal and external use.
ABS Plastic
ABS plastic is a hard, body-safe plastic commonly used in vibrators and external components.
It is:
- Non-porous
- Lightweight and durable
- Easy to sanitize
ABS plastic is often combined with silicone in products that include motors or charging components.
Stainless Steel
Stainless steel is fully non-porous and extremely durable.
It offers:
- A smooth, seamless surface
- Easy cleaning and sanitizing
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Compatibility with temperature play
Because it does not degrade over time, stainless steel can last for many years with proper care.
Borosilicate Glass
Borosilicate glass is not ordinary glass. It is specially treated to withstand temperature changes and pressure.
It is:
- Non-porous
- Body-safe
- Easy to clean
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Compatible with temperature play
When used as directed, borosilicate glass is a safe and elegant option.
Porous vs. Non-Porous Materials (At a Glance)
- Non-porous materials (silicone, glass, steel, ABS plastic) do not absorb bacteria and are easier to clean thoroughly.
- Porous materials can absorb moisture and bacteria and require more careful cleaning and drying.
Understanding this distinction helps you choose products — and care for them — more intentionally.
How to Clean Your Toys
Proper cleaning is essential for both hygiene and longevity.
Before and After Each Use
- Wash with warm water and a mild, fragrance-free soap
- Or use a high-quality toy cleaner designed for intimate products
Always follow manufacturer instructions, especially for toys with motors.
Waterproof vs. Non-Waterproof Toys
- Waterproof toys can usually be washed directly under running water
- Non-waterproof toys should be cleaned carefully, avoiding charging ports or seams
Never submerge a toy unless it is clearly labeled waterproof.
Drying Matters
Pat toys dry with a clean towel
- Allow them to air-dry completely before storing
Moisture trapped during storage can lead to bacterial growth, even on non-porous materials.
Store toys separately when possible
- Use breathable storage bags or cases
- Keep toys away from direct heat or sunlight
- Recharge rechargeable toys every few months to protect battery health
Good storage practices protect both your toys and your body.
A Note on Lubricant Compatibility
Lubrication plays an important role in comfort and safety, but not all lubricants work with all materials.
- Water-based lubricants are generally safe with all toy materials
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Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone toys unless explicitly stated as compatible
The Takeaway
Body-safe pleasure starts with understanding what your toys are made of and how to care for them properly.
When you have clear information about materials, cleaning, and storage, you can engage with pleasure more confidently and comfortably.
Education creates safety — and safety allows pleasure to exist without fear or shame.
What’s Next
In the next part of this series, we’ll take a closer look at products made with softer, more lifelike materials and explore how they differ in care, use, and consideration.
With care and intention,
Risa Katz, LCSW, FMCHC
Founder, Pleasure Treasurz
Licensed Clinical Social Worker | Functional Medicine Certified Health Coach
Where pleasure is normal, natural, and yours.
