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Take the Quiz: How To Choose The Right Vibrator or Sex Toy For Your Body

Take the Quiz: How To Choose The Right Vibrator...

Take the Quiz: How To Choose The Right Vibrator or Sex Toy For Your Body A shame-free guide to understanding what kinds of stimulation, sensation, and pleasure your body may...

Take the Quiz: How To Choose The Right Vibrator...

Take the Quiz: How To Choose The Right Vibrator or Sex Toy For Your Body A shame-free guide to understanding what kinds of stimulation, sensation, and pleasure your body may...

When Pleasure Changes: Understanding Sexual Difficulties With More Compassion And Less Shame

When Pleasure Changes: Understanding Sexual Dif...

A lot of people quietly struggle with sex and never talk about it.   They notice changes in desire.Changes in arousal.Erection difficulties.Pain during sex.Trouble orgasming.Or frustration that their body suddenly...

When Pleasure Changes: Understanding Sexual Dif...

A lot of people quietly struggle with sex and never talk about it.   They notice changes in desire.Changes in arousal.Erection difficulties.Pain during sex.Trouble orgasming.Or frustration that their body suddenly...

Is It Him… or Is It Menopause?

Is It Him… or Is It Menopause?

“Feeling more irritated with your partner lately? It might not be your relationship. Learn how menopause can affect mood, patience, and emotional connection.”   If you’ve found yourself getting irritated...

Is It Him… or Is It Menopause?

“Feeling more irritated with your partner lately? It might not be your relationship. Learn how menopause can affect mood, patience, and emotional connection.”   If you’ve found yourself getting irritated...

"Right There...Don't Stop"

"Right There...Don't Stop"

Why does arousal disappear so fast during sex? Sometimes one small change is all it takes to lose the moment.   You know that moment when everything finally feels right?...

"Right There...Don't Stop"

Why does arousal disappear so fast during sex? Sometimes one small change is all it takes to lose the moment.   You know that moment when everything finally feels right?...

Husbands: It’s Not Rejection—It’s Menopause

Husbands: It’s Not Rejection—It’s Menopause

What Nobody Tells Husbands About Menopause (And Why You’re Probably Taking It Personally)   A Partner’s Perspective   Let me be honest for a second. When my wife first mentioned...

Husbands: It’s Not Rejection—It’s Menopause

What Nobody Tells Husbands About Menopause (And Why You’re Probably Taking It Personally)   A Partner’s Perspective   Let me be honest for a second. When my wife first mentioned...

Part 2: Where Did My Sex Drive Go? Menopause, Desire, and What Actually Helps

Part 2: Where Did My Sex Drive Go? Menopause, D...

Menopause, Desire & Vaginal Health: What Actually Helps   In Part 1, we broke down what’s happening hormonally—why things can feel unpredictable, and why your body might not feel the...

Part 2: Where Did My Sex Drive Go? Menopause, D...

Menopause, Desire & Vaginal Health: What Actually Helps   In Part 1, we broke down what’s happening hormonally—why things can feel unpredictable, and why your body might not feel the...